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Motivation is an often-powerful force that leads most of us to some level of accomplishment or improvement in our lives. Sometimes the motivation comes from an external source like our parents, siblings or peer group. It's usually far better when it comes from our internal desire to achieve and excel. Some of the more common motivators are fame, prestige, the adulation of others, power and money.
There is a regular writer of letters to the editor in the Brainerd Dispatch who occasionally asks the question when questioning actions of the Brainerd City Council, "Why won't they listen to us?" He then goes on to lament how the council is wasting money and doesn't seem to care whether or not the citizens support all its actions and so on. I can provide a few perspectives in answering that question. The first is to go back to the Constitution and to point out that we have a representative form of government.
The spoken word was likely the first means of communication after gestures or crude drawings, but we don't really know. While it's been said that a picture is worth a thousand words; words — whether spoken or written — are still our primary means of communication. And the way we use words can be positive or devastating. Using the right word at the right time can bolster the ego, provide comfort and solace, win someone's heart, or give a person the encouragement to achieve far more than he or she believed possible.
I’m certain many of you have seen the commercial where a man opens a small note that reads something like, “Your heart attack will happen in one hour.” I can’t...
Next Monday we will observe another Memorial Day. I’m old enough to remember when it actually meant something important and special to most of the nation. And as a retired Air Force pilot I feel a special kinship with all the men and women who have served our country in peace and in conflict.
There are many important people in our society — presidents, chief executive officers, lawmakers, law enforcement personnel, clergy, doctors, nurses, public safety officers and so on. The list is certainly much longer than these few categories.
We all have fond memories from our youth. One thing I remember clearly and dearly from many years ago is bread baking. Both grandmothers, my mom and a few of my aunts baked it, too. After my father retired he took it up and even shared his prized recipe and method for bread making in writing with my wife. Those stained yellow pages are one of our true treasures.
I guess it’s human nature to wonder so much about nature — no pun intended. We certainly have a curious relationship with the world around us — and by that I mean everything that exists besides us. While intellectually speaking we are larger than nature as a whole, in the practical sense we are not much better than ants. It might actually be that ants have something over us in that I doubt they believe they can control nature.
I get a lot of ideas for these columns from the news. That’s probably no surprise since news has become a 24-hour, 365-day media business that must rake in billions of bucks for a number of owners. However, some of the best subjects still come from the local news since they often reflect and are related to larger national events or trends.
But one size hardly ever fits me. Have you noticed how “choice” has seemed to disappear from a whole lot of things that we buy? It’s almost down to having only a choice to buy or not to buy something, but there are a great number of things that have been decided for us long before we enter a store. For instance, “One size fits most,” always leaves me out. I would not like to meet “most” in a dark alley. I don’t think I would like him very much because he has to outweigh me by at least 50 pounds and have a neck like a tree trunk and his knuckles must drag on the sidewalk.